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THE DECISION THIS WOMAN MADE TO END HER LIFE SO HER NEW BABY CAN LIVE

 

A New York City mom made the ultimate sacrifice — giving up her own life so her baby girl could live.

 

Doctors told cancer patient Elizabeth Joice that she would never get pregnant, so when she did last year, it was something of a miracle.

 

But joy quickly turned to heartbreak for Elizabeth and her husband Max when doctors presented her with an impossible challenge: terminate the pregnancy and begin treatment — or put her life in danger.

 

It didn’t take Elizabeth long to reach her decision.

 

“Having a kid was one of the most important things in the world to her,” Max told The Post. “She said, ‘If we terminate the pregnancy and it turns out I can’t have a baby [later], I’ll be devastated. She knew this might be her only chance.”

 

Elizabeth and Max were together for two years in September 2010, when an MRI showed that what doctors thought was a herniated disc was actually a tumor.

 

Elizabeth Joice and her husband Max

 

“The day the doctors called us with the results is also the day I proposed to her,” Max said. “She said, ‘If it’s terminal, I’m not even going to fight. Let’s travel the world until I keel over.’ ”

 

Max made a beeline for the kitchen and returned with an engagement ring made of tin foil.

 

“I said, ‘You don’t have the option not to fight’ and proposed to her then,” Max said. “We got married a month later.”

 

Elizabeth, 36, described as fiercely independent and optimistic, endured four rounds of chemotherapy, a surgery and even more chemo to make sure the tumor was eradicated.

 

She was declared cancer-free for three years but still longed to have a baby, even though doctors told her it was impossible.

 

Undeterred, the couple moved from the Upper East Side to Roosevelt Island in June 2013 to prepare to raise a family. Within a few days, Liz discovered she was pregnant. “I totally blew a gasket,” Max said. “They said there was no chance this was happening — and here it was happening.”

 

But only a month later, they received the devastating news: the tumor was back.

 

Doctors removed the mass, but because she was pregnant, Elizabeth couldn’t undergo full-body MRI scans and her oncologist couldn’t see whether the cancer was growing.

 

The baby was due March 4, but the doctors could no longer wait. In January, a surgeon performed a C-section and beautiful baby Lily was born.

 

Elizabeth’s health quickly declined as her cancer spread. Tumors invaded her right lung, heart and abdomen “We said our goodbyes,” Max said. “It was like something out of a movie. We sat there and cried. We tried to tell stories, talk about all the great things.”

 

“Liz came home five days after Lily was born,” Max said. “That one night at home was all we had.”

Henry Sapiecha

 

PARLIAMENT INVESTIGATES HUMAN RIGHTS ISSUES FOR WOMEN & GIRLS OF THE INDIAN OCEAN & PACIFIC ISLAND REGIONS

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 AUSTRALIAN PARLIAMENT

Tuesday 18 March 2014

Human rights for women and girls – Indian Ocean-Asia Pacific region\

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 A new inquiry will investigate challenges facing women and girls of the Indian Ocean – Asia Pacific region to improve their human rights. 

The Human Rights Sub-Committee will conduct the inquiry and is keen to hear the perspectives of women from across the region so it can make practical policy recommendations that will make a real contribution to women’s empowerment and gender equality.

 Sub-Committee chair Luke Simpkins said a focus on women and girls was vital to the advancement of human rights, economic development and peace and stability in Australia’s region.

“As the father of two daughters I know that while there have been great advances in ensuring respect for human rights globally over the past century, much of this progress is yet to touch the lives of hundreds of millions of women and girls,” he said.  

Mr Simpkins said the reasons for this are complex and range across several areas including education, health, economic opportunity, family violence and even culture.

“Women make up the majority of the world’s poor,” he said. 

“One third of women will experience physical violence in their lifetimes, and some are trapped in conflicts where rape is perpetrated as a weapon of war. 

“In many countries, women and girls are often denied access to education and excluded from political processes.  Fewer than one in five parliamentarians globally are women.” 

The Sub-Committee will inquire into and report on:

       barriers and impediments to enhancing the human rights of women and girls, especially regarding the impact of family and sexual violence, women’s leadership and economic opportunities

        achievements to date in advancing human rights in these key areas

        implications for economic and social development in the region of promoting women and girls’ human rights; and

        the effectiveness of Australian programs to support efforts to improve human rights of women and girls in the Indian Ocean – Asia Pacific region.

Currently, around half of Australia’s aid budget is spent on initiatives, policies and programs that have a significant focus on gender equality and the empowerment of women and girls.

The Sub-Committee invites public submissions addressing the terms of reference for this inquiry.

The closing date for submission’s will be Friday 22 May 2014.The Sub-Committee encourages the lodgement of electronic submissions from anyone with an interest in the issues raised by these terms of reference.

Further information on the inquiry, including how to lodge a submission, is available on the committee’s website: www.aph.gov.au/house/committee/jfadt

Henry Sapiecha

 

 

THE STORY OF A PACIFIC ISLAND WOMAN’S JOURNEY INTO POLITICS

Boosting women’s participation in political life throughout the Pacific region has been launched by a new program.

Story: Emma O’Sullivan

At a recent meeting of women politicians in Sydney, Rhoda Sikilabu from the Solomon Islands was keen to share her story. It was one of self-sacrifice and dedication to her community. It was her journey into politics.

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“I just did it the Solomon way,” she explained. “I left high school as a very young woman and I worked for 11 years and I had this passion to be a politician. I left my work. I denied my children of a good education. I went back and lived in the village for 15 years. I think that is a long, hard and painful journey of an election campaign.”

In 2006 Ms Sikilabu’s efforts were rewarded when she gained a seat in the country’s provincial assembly for the Isabel province.

“There were no political parties. In my campaign I just had to make the voters aware that men and women are equal, they run as equal people in the government,” she said.

Spurred on by her success, she decided to run in the 2010 general election. Her election campaign saw her swimming across flooded rivers, camping in the bush and trekking over mountains in order to speak with voters in the most remote villages.

“That was the hardest campaign that I did,” she said. Ms Sikilabu came second, a result she believes proves women candidates are making progress. She is likely to try again next time.

Her story illustrates some of the obstacles – economic, cultural and institutional – faced by Pacific Island women who have decided to enter an arena which, in their region, is almost completely dominated by men.

But Ms Sikilabu and around 40 other parliamentarians from the Pacific, Australia and New Zealand who were gathered in the room that day are determined to create an easier path for those who follow them.

This was their reason for attending the first forum of the Pacific Women’s Parliamentary Partnerships project, which was co-hosted by the Australian parliament and the Commonwealth Women Parliamentarians group. It was a very rare opportunity for the women to meet in person so they could share their experiences and build relationships.

The seeds of this gathering were planted in 2012 at the annual Pacific Islands Forum. The only woman among 15 leaders present, Prime Minister Julia Gillard announced Australia would provide $320 million over 10 years to improve Pacific women’s economic and leadership prospects and to keep them free from violence.

By the forum’s end, Pacific Island leaders had made a detailed gender equality declaration. The statement put on the record their deep concern that violence against women was too high, political participation too low and economic opportunities limited. It also outlined measures for each nation to implement and committed them to providing yearly progress reports.

Australia’s $320 million spend – the ‘Pacific Women Shaping Pacific Development’ initiative – is being administered by AusAID, which has provided almost $3 million for the Pacific Women’s Parliamentary Partnerships project.

AusAID deputy director-general James Batley has spent many years working as a diplomat in a number of Pacific countries including Fiji and Papua New Guinea, and he was present at the forum to give an overview of the initiative.

“It’s a matter of people’s rights, it’s a matter of fairness, but it’s also a matter of addressing entrenched poverty in these countries,” he said.

“There’s plenty of evidence now from right around the world that involving women in decision making, empowering them to take part in the decision making processes of communities and countries leads to better outcomes.”

In Pacific Island parliaments, women hold just five per cent of seats, and progress on increasing that number is slow. One positive development last year saw the number of women in Papua New Guinea’s national parliament triple from one to three.

However, out of the parliamentary chambers in the world recorded by the Inter-Parliamentary Union as having no women members, three are in the Pacific region. They are in Nauru, the Federated States of Micronesia and Vanuatu.

Perhaps one of the first obstacles a woman must overcome when she begins campaigning for election is the heavily entrenched view that Pacific women do not belong in politics.

Recently-elected Cook Islands MP Selina Napa grew up in a family familiar with politics, with her father having been an MP. Because of this she was also reasonably well-known in her community. But she was still challenged by some, who questioned her credentials simply because she was a woman.

“I had to put it out to them that a woman is just as capable of doing things as men are whether it be in the home, in workplaces, that women are just as capable of doing it,” she said.

Chair of the Australia-Pacific Parliamentary Group and federal MP Amanda Rishworth said unfortunately politics often seems to be seen as men’s business in the Pacific. This was highlighted on a parliamentary trip to the Solomon Islands and Papua New Guinea where Ms Rishworth met many women who she believed were capable of holding political office.

“One of the concerning things for me was when I asked some of the bright young women that I met, ‘maybe you should think about going into politics’, it didn’t seem like it was an option for them,” she said.

This attitude, that politics is men’s business, is often explained as being part of a cultural tradition. But House of Representatives Speaker Anna Burke, who attended the forum, said this justification is “ridiculous”.

“We need to say, ‘no it’s not cultural’. It’s about attitudes towards women that we need to overcome,” she said.

But it also seems some of the attitudes working against women come from women themselves. Several forum participants, including Hilda Heine of the Marshall Islands, said women are reluctant to vote for other women.

“Women are not as independent voters as I think men are and they tend to follow husband’s votes or uncles or brothers,” she said.

But veteran Australian MP Bronwyn Bishop urged women at the forum not to buy into that argument.

“I think that’s an excuse men will use to say we can’t have you because women won’t support you when in fact that’s their way of saying, ‘I don’t want the competition’,” she said. “If you’re strong and you’re giving leadership women will respond to that so it’s something you need to push aside.”

Anna Burke believes part of the solution is to ensure candidates have good campaign skills.

“It’s about the candidate presenting themselves as a credible candidate. It’s about the policies they bring,” she said.

While changing people’s attitudes is one challenge women are beginning to grapple with, changing rules, systems and institutions to improve gender equality is something entirely different.

The search for solutions is further complicated for a region in which modern political systems have only been in place for around half a century, since nations began to gain independence from European rule.

According to the United Nations Development Programme (UNDP), it will take another 50 years to achieve gender equality in Asia-Pacific parliaments if the increase in women’s participation in parliaments remains at the current pace.

Harvard University Professor Pippa Norris has identified six areas that can be targeted to fast-track women into politics, one of which is change to Pacific electoral systems.

“This is a real barrier in the Pacific,” she explained. “If you have the British system, which was first past the post, single member districts, which is now so common in the Pacific region, then you get far fewer women elected to parliament than if you have any sort of proportional or mixed system.”

Professor Norris said women should grab the opportunity to debate electoral reform if it arises in their country.

“And you don’t have to make the argument necessarily that this is about gender quotas which can be difficult in some cultures,” she said.

“You’re saying basically we need a fairer electoral system. You can make coalitions with parties, you can make coalitions with civic society groups and other minorities will also benefit.”

Another possibility for change lies in the use of reserved seats, an area which is subject to ongoing debate in the Pacific region.

The autonomous region of Bougainville has only had a parliament since 2005, following the resolution of an almost decade-long conflict. Its constitution provides for three reserved seats for women, one of which is held by Elizabeth Burain who was elected under the system in 2010.

“We have a matrilineal society where women own land,” she said. “We also have women represent the clan as chiefs and in the government – we had to make it work.

“I must stress here that the three reserved seats came about because during the peace arrangement the community, especially women, really worked hard to bring the peace into Bougainville.

“Now that we are discussing how more women can get into the parliament you will find that there’s differences in supporting temporary special measures. I believe if a country wants to make women prove themselves to be leaders, if they cannot have more women they must use temporary special measures.”

Bougainville’s long-term future, including its constitution, is set to be reviewed after 10 years, which means the reserved seats system may also be under consideration. In the meantime, Ms Burain says women like her, who are already in parliament, need to set a strong example and encourage more women to contest both reserved and open seats.

“I think the way forward is when a woman is elected into the parliament she must remember that she is a role model. And we need to network. Because you will find that we really need each other to convince the community that yes, women can also make a difference.”

Ms Bishop agrees: “There’s an obligation on those of us who arrive into the parliamentary arena to ensure that we don’t muck it up for other women.”

After two days of discussions at the forum the group agreed to 12 key outcomes, the first of which was to foster mentoring relationships between Australian, New Zealand and Pacific parliamentarians.

Commonwealth Women Parliamentarians deputy chair Christine Fyffe from Victoria said it is crucial that Pacific MPs know they have a support network.

“Being able to talk to people who understand how you’re going and what is happening to you is very important,” she said.

“I really see it narrowing down as we develop an affinity for each other. You’ll find that certain people will have a better relationship with others and I’m hoping that then there will be a natural flow on – that we will work with these people, with the country or the individuals.”

The women MPs at the forum also identified the need to create an online networking platform for MPs and staff to facilitate discussion, requests for data and information sharing.

MP exchanges will also take place this year which will give Australian and Pacific women parliamentarians the opportunity to learn more about each other and each other’s work.

Ms Fyffe said the evolution of the program very much depends on what the Pacific Island women want.

“They will be telling us what they need, what involvement they want from us and how much they want to do themselves,” she said.

“Because it’s not just for women members of parliament, it’s also for people who work within parliaments and women who are aspirational to become members of parliament.”

For more information on the Pacific Women’s Parliamentary Partnerships project visit: www.pacificparliaments.net

Henry Sapiecha